It's a lot easier to blame someone when we don't relate to them. It's just cleaner. No need to question ourselves or those in our camp. Even though we always should.
No need to wonder how we could show up more fully next time. Even though it's worthwhile.
The thing is, the flames of division have been fanned, making it hard to look at our own shortcomings. When we feel attacked or our equality undermined, we rarely give in to logic or reason.
We is everyone, it's just hard to see sometimes.